Another half-baked idea.
Below are the different types of possible attractions and repelling forces. 1a, 1b, 2a, 2b could be the same.
1a) Mono-pole 1 (Aether) = Attracted to Positive, Negative, and Neutral Charges (attracted to all matter)
1b) Mono-pole 2 (Space) = Repelled by the aether
2a) Mono-pole 3 (South Pole) = Negative = Electron
2b) Mono-pole 4 (North Pole) = Positive = Proton
3a) No-pole = Neutron = Plastic
3b) Bi-Pole = Attracted to Positive and Negative Charges = Ferromagnetic materials (metal)
The aether is attracted to all matter. The denser an object is, the more gravity produced by the object due to the amount of aether being attracted to the object from all directions. The aether can pass through all particles, but it can not pass through itself. So, the mass of the object will continue to attract the aether until the space within the mass is equalized due to the aether and space repelling each other, thus condensing the space within the mass according to it's mass.
The aether is more strongly attracted to the mass than the repelling force of the space within the mass, thus a greater mass will squeeze or condense the space into a smaller area It is this repelling force between the aether and space which causes the electrons to orbit the proton and gives rise to the electric field. This also causes the space and aether to move which causes the magnetic field.
I'm not saying this is correct, but different variations of this could be correct. I'll let you decide if the aether is repelled or attracted to space, etc.
Let's try to modify and use this concept for a correct theory and unify all the forces. ;D